新闻摘要：在10月29日至30日于陕西延安召开的中国文明乡风大会上，宁夏吴忠市同心县作为9个经验典型之一交流了推进移风易俗的做法。同心县县委书记陈华围绕“定规则、传新风、促善治、强激励”四方面，介绍了整治高额彩礼、鼓励文明婚俗的系列举措与成效。
同心县通过调研完善政策，发挥群众主体作用，全县153个村成立红白理事会，制定并写入村规民约的彩礼、礼金和婚宴标准；鼓励年轻人参加“零、低彩礼”集体婚礼，报名数从2024年的10对增至今年52对；组织“义务红娘”、相亲角等民间服务，并对获“零、低彩礼”光荣证的青年在就业、就医等方面给予优待，社会力量还提供5000至15000元不等的购车购房优惠。大会由中央和地方相关部门以及多方代表共同参与，主题为“文明，让乡村更美好”。
思考与启发：把规则交给乡亲，让大家一起商定门规，这是把治理落到日常生活里的做法。凡事少些攀比、多些体谅，既能减轻家庭负担，也能让婚礼回归温暖与互助，这种从制度到邻里互助的合力，正是乡村长久和睦的根基。天经里关于如何待人的朴素话语，提醒我们在日常选择上多些守望与诚信，人人都愿意被体恤时，社会才会更平实安稳。
经文：所以无论何事，你们愿意人怎样待你们，你们也要怎样待人，因为这就是律法和先知的道。《引支勒·马太卷 7:12》
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Title: Tongxin Sample of Changing Customs
News Summary
At the China Civilized Rural Customs Conference held in Yan’an, Shaanxi, on October 29‑30, Tongxin County of Wuzhong City, Ningxia—one of nine model cases—shared how it is promoting a shift away from outdated customs. County Party Secretary Chen Hua spoke about four key points:
- Setting rules
- Promoting new customs
- Improving good governance
- Strengthening incentives
He described a series of actions and results aimed at reducing excessive betrothal gifts and encouraging more civilized wedding practices.
- Tongxin County first researched and refined its policies, then let the people take the lead. All 153 villages have created “Red‑White” committees that set clear standards for betrothal gifts, cash, and wedding banquets, and these standards are written into village contracts.
- Young couples are encouraged to join “zero‑gift” or “low‑gift” group weddings. Registrations have risen from 10 couples in 2024 to 52 couples this year.
- The county also organizes volunteer matchmakers, community “match‑making corners,” and other folk services. Young people who earn a “zero/low‑gift” certificate receive preferential treatment in jobs, medical care, and other areas.
- Local charities and businesses contribute vehicle‑purchase or housing subsidies ranging from ¥5,000 to ¥15,000.
The conference was attended by officials from central and local governments as well as many representatives, under the theme “Civilization makes the countryside better.”
Reflection and Insight
Giving the rules to the villagers and letting them decide household standards brings governance into everyday life. When we reduce competition and practice more understanding, families feel less burdened and weddings can return to warmth and mutual help. This combined effort— from formal policies to neighborly assistance—forms the foundation of lasting rural harmony.
The simple biblical wisdom about how we should treat others reminds us to act with watchfulness and integrity in our daily choices. When everyone feels cared for, society becomes steadier and more peaceful.
Scripture
“So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.” — Matthew 7:12
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